taboo

I think almost every guy deals with this, so I don't feel bad posting this on the internet where my friends can read it. If your opinion changes of me, it's probably closer to where I want it to be. If you don't want to know, don't read. I am expressing my thoughts about sex.
Breaking away from sexuality?
so, obviously, when my body wants to get rid of excess semen, or whatever the biological reason for for my sexual desires comes about, my body or brain tries to put me into situations that help me to get to orgasm. My brain tries to get me away from other people, watch porn, have fantasies about girls, put girls into situations where/when I can have sex. My mind/body will focus on whatever it takes until I reach orgasm to fulfill that biological need. It's extremely hard to get away from all situations that lead to the act and orgasm.
After I have an orgasm, I can concentrate much better on other things, for a little while anyway.
What do I do to best rid myself of the degrading thought processes?
If I masturbate a lot, so that I can concentrate afterwards, I will become addicted, so I won't be able to think of much else my whole life, so that's not an option. If I masturbate once a week or once every two weeks, I'll probably go through withdrawal very often as my body tries to get me to masturbate more after the once per however many weeks, and that sucks like crazy.. Is it healthy to stop all together? If and when I get married, is there a healthy way to come back into having sex if I stop? I think whenever I was in the junior high/high school age, the longest I ever stopped was about a year. More recently, I only stop for a few months at a time before coming back to it daily.
It seems like nobody ever talks about this.. so there. bam.